To Weed or not to weed

A garden is a space created for plants of your choice to grow. It's an opportunity for you to create a relationship with the earth, and the seeds you’ve chosen to enjoy fruits and veggies from. Much like any relationship, it’ll require a safe space, protection, and healthy participation to flourish. Your womb can be viewed as your personal garden space where you grow life, experiences, and dreams. It’s a beautiful feeling seeing your seeds sprout, and little flowers before the fruit start to bloom. It's rewarding to get the help of the bees pollinating those flowers and finally see your fruits start to bud and grow enough to feed you. Often times when we start to see those fruits bud, and especially when we get to eat from those fruits we forget the follow-up maintenance that is required to keep the garden functioning as it did before, if not better! Small blades of grass begin to grow and little flowers that catch your eye and make you smile start to emerge from the ground. These things seem cute and small, and can even be looked at as harmless or just not as important to tend to as the plants you purposely planted. But this is a huge misconception some of us have and can prove to be a lazy act or rather avoidant behavior that leads to the demise of your ENTIRE GARDEN if caught too late.

BUT HOW OR WHY IS THIS?

Because flowers and weeds need to feed Empress!!

The sunlight, water, fertilizer, bells, AND whistles given to your garden are all going to be shared between the seeds you put in the ground and the extra life that just kind of found its way into your space. Unlike your fruits and veggies, these "extras" actually need way less to survive and flourish than your plants do, so by the same source of food and energy they take from what your plants can be getting and use it to grow in such a way that feels like it's nothing until it's out of your control. This same thing happens inside of your womb space if you aren't concerned with the things that seem too small to worry about while you're taking care of "bigger and better things". We get so caught up with life and what we want to bring into it that sometimes we completely overlook the silent predators that lurk in plain sight! It's important that when you notice them at whatever stage they exist in that you take full accountability for allowing them to stay in your space of creation.

Can you do that for yourself?

When the wandering grasses grow, your sight becomes limited and things start to go undetected like:

1. Rotting fruits

2. Fruits that are being eaten right under your nose

3. Unhealthy stems and leaves

4. Opportunities to prune

5. Diseases the plants can be suffering from

5. The actual plant themselves!!

Eventually, the weeds start to surpass the height of your plants and the ability to properly take care of your garden is pretty much forfeited or given up because you fail to do what is right for you and your space of creation.

So to translate this into "V-talk" this means that your allowance of uninvited energy into your space of creation WILL stunt the growth in many ways of your experiences, dreams, and life that you create.

These energies are unchecked emotions, tightly packed trauma, and trauma responses, people you allow into your life that you have "that weird feeling about" and more! We usually have a small feeling about all the things that we just simply ignore or don't possess the "know-how" to handle, allowing ourselves to be distracted by another piece of the picture. It's important to realize that the entire picture is important and that every piece requires attention to have a presentable work of art. The problem some of us have is once there is an abundance of work that needs to be done at once, we get overwhelmed and do absolutely nothing because the tasks become paralyzing to one's willpower. OR we start to exhibit the signs of insanity by continuing to do what we had been doing while hoping to have better results in the future... This is essentially hoping the problems we allowed to creep in, solve themselves!

NOT GONNA HAPPEN, CAPTAIN!!!

What can come from that mentality?

1. Death to your plants (plans)

2. Loss of the fruits of your labor (opportunities)

3. Extra/Hard work clearing knee-high weeds! (bullshit that has built up over time)

Helping yourself not have these types of issues is to prep your garden(womb space) with the type of protection that it requires to keep those weeds out of your space.

Activities like:

1. Yoni breathing to connect with her voice and messages

2. Meditation and regular body movements that require a little hip shaking

3. Yoni steaming

4. Proper menstrual care

5. Daily check-ins with yourself and or weekly with your mentor to gain an understanding of where you are emotionally, mentally, and spiritually and where you can be headed to keep your space of creation pure and unbothered. These things may not be your norm but they can become your norm the more you convey to yourself that YOU ARE WORTH THE PREP AND WORK regardless of its level of difficulty to do at first.

So if the question still remains in your mind "TO WEED OR NOT TO WEED"?

Ask yourself "do I deserve to see my hard work going down the drain because I don't want to take preventative measures"? Comment your answers and thoughts below. What has your experience been like tending to the garden of your womb? What type of "weeds" have you found in your space of creation and what did you do to pull them? Sharing your story and or questions also helps others to heal and this is an open and safe space to do just that.